Welcome to Integration Nation
GOOD MEN DOING BETTER
Happy, Satisfied Men With Rich Lives
Do This One Thing
What Nice Guys Like You Are Missing
Over 2 million people have read my international best-selling books “No More Mr. Nice Guy” and “Dating Essentials for Men.”
You might be one of them, which is why you’re reading this page right now.
And you’re now brave enough to ask yourself the hard questions. Like:
Why do I work long hours, but never get ahead?
Why doesn’t my wife respect me, let alone want to have sex with me?
Why can’t I just walk up to that girl at the coffee shop and say “hi?”
How do I end up in one toxic relationship after another?
Can I stop beating myself up?
How can I make real friends instead of being lonely?
When will I feel like I’m living, instead of just passing time?
I bet you’ve asked yourself one of these questions.
Maybe all of them.
And if you think I’ve always had it together, you’re wrong.
In my late forties, I was out of my second less-then-happy, mostly sexless marriage.
I had zero money in the bank (less than $00 actually), 25+ extra pounds around my belly, a used Volkswagen Jetta, and virtually no experience dating.
Worst of all, I was not authentic. I was terrified to be myself.
Today I’m approaching 70, living in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, married to the true love of my life, Lupita.
I have tons of great guy friends all around the world. Men I can call up at 3 in the morning if I need ‘em.
And I’m in better shape than 98% of men my age.
Because I diagnosed my own nice guy syndrome.
And then I treated it - with the help of a tribe I worked my ass off to create.
Happy, Satisfied Men That Live Rich Lives
Do This One Thing
The #1 symptom of nice-guy syndrome is a lack of healthy community and depth of bonding with good men.
Think about the guys you’ve known that have it together - the ones with healthy families, high confidence, successful careers, exciting love lives etc.
They have strong connections with other men.
Forget the crap you see in the movies.
The loner does not get the beautiful girl he’s really attracted to.
He does not get the promotion at work.
He does not go on exciting adventures to interesting places.
That’s why…
I Started a Group Coaching Program… and Then Accidentally Created a Social Network
for Good Men Doing Better
Here’s a fun fact about the “No More Mr. Nice Guy” book.
It was supposed to bomb because the experts kept saying “men don’t buy self-help books.”
But after some hard pushing, the publisher rolled the dice, and we got it out in 2003. And every single year, it’s sold more copies than the year before – and now brings in $quarter-million+ royalty checks every year.
Books are not supposed to snowball like that and keep climbing in sales 25 years after publication – but you can’t stop word of mouth.
We’re up to 15K+ Amazon reviews and counting, with an average score of 4.6/5 stars.
I ended up in the NY Times, The Guardian, Men’s Health, Fox News, The Independent, the Seattle Times and plenty of other outlets, teaching about the dangers of Nice Guy syndrome.
And more recently, I’ve appeared on dozens of major podcasts with giants like Chris Williamson, Mikhaila Peterson, Patrick Bet-David, Charlie Houpert, Adam Lane Smith, and Orion Taraban.
So as time went on, I got more and more requests from guys seeking 1:1 help.
And that was tempting because I love helping men live the lives they really want.
But after 40 years as a therapist and coach in private practice, I want a bigger, global impact.
So I launched Integration Nation in July 2023 to offer community and mentoring to the men who read my books and wanted to work with me.
And that’s all it was going to be - a coaching call or two a month, where I teach lessons and answer questions from my guys.
But before I knew it, I realized I created something far bigger - a social network for good men doing better.
Better in their family, social, sexual, and work lives.
How Integration Nation
Went Beyond Coaching to
Full Community & Social Network
We do a lot at Integration Nation - which we also call “IN.”
Perfect initials, because we work with men who are truly “IN” when it comes to getting their lives together.
I host 1-2 coaching calls a month myself - live lessons to build your confidence, social skills, and relationship patterns.
And I answer your questions. The stuff that’s on your mind.
So yes, you get direct access to me.
And my No More Mr. Nice Guy Certified coaches host more sessions every week on dating, communications, etc.
We also bring in expert speakers every month, like:
Mark Manson (author of “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck”)
Charlie Haupert (founder of the Charisma on Command YouTube channel with 6+ million subscribers)
Sarah Dawn Moore (High performance men’s coach with over 500,000 subscribers on YouTube)
Dr. Gary Chapman, the author of The 5 Love Languages.
GS Youngblood, author of The Masculine in Relationship.
Plus there are live chat and Zoom rooms running 24/7 so you can hang out with and go deep with Integration Nation members (who call themselves “IN-Mates) – plus our coaches – about anything you want, like:
How to handle a tricky social situation
Coming up with ideas for a first date
Silencing a rude coworker
Creating peace in your home
Surviving a divorce
Getting into better shape
Unlike Facebook or Reddit, this is a 100% private platform so we can all be open and risk being vulnerable..
And get real answers to hard questions.
But the real shocker to me was how many Integration Nation men told me “I can’t believe how many friends I’ve made here.”
Both online and in-person.
And that's why I said I accidentally created a social network.
Because so many IN members have found real connections with other good men.
Why Connection With Men Matters;
Changes Everything For You
I love women.
And I hope you do too.
But you need a tribe of good men around you to attract and keep a high quality woman.
I use the word tribe for good reason.
Because for hundreds of thousands of years, men worked together in tribes - for survival, and for mentorship.
Men used to teach boys to face their fears through masculine initiation rituals.
That’s all but gone today in a world that says masculinity is toxic.
So you spend too much time around women (or by yourself), suppressing your natural masculine drive.
Your #1 priority becomes pleasing others (especially women) - and a nice guy is born.
Today, the #1 rule for men is “Don’t piss off the woman.” This is true at home, in the workplace, and even in a Starbucks!
When all your emotional and social needs are met by women (or nobody at all), you become needy and dependent.
There’s even a name for that now, “Mankeeping.”
Women are tired of taking care of little boys inhabiting the bodies of grown men.
And people can smell it on you..
Your wife, your girlfriend, your kids, your boss, everybody.
That’s why you need good guy friends, because when a friendship has no sexual agenda (i.e., your bros), you can experience an amazing depth of connection.
Because you’re not worried about saying the wrong thing.
You don’t have to please, placate, or lie.
You can be yourself and not be judged for it.
In fact, you'll be respected for being your true self - rough edges and all.
Because men know men.
We’ve made the same mistakes, have the same regrets, and face similar challenges every day.
9 Things You Can Work On With Me
I want you to read this list and ask yourself “what do I want more of?”
Passion
Money
Adventure
Love
Sex
Respect
Meaning
Joy
Friends
Say out loud what you really want.
Do you want to go on more trips and try more new things?
Then say “I want more adventure.”
Do you want to end your dead bedroom?
Say “I want more sex.”
Do you want a healthy connection with other men?
Say “I want more friends.”
Because Integration Nation isn’t just about coaching and community and connecting - it’s about you getting what you want, in your real life.
The Principles of
“No More Mr. Nice Guy”
Put Into Action
If it’s not clear yet, my coaching community and social network was built on the principles of “No More Mr. Nice Guy” - an international best-seller for 20+ years, translated into 25 languages.
It’s where you can learn directly from me, my personally-trained No More Mr. Nice Guy Certified Coaches, and connect with men around the world on the same journey as you.
Men working on things like:
Having a more satisfying sex life
Getting through a tough divorce
Changing to a new, more lucrative career
Dropping everything and moving to a new city
Earning the respect of work colleagues
Building the confidence to say “hi” to that pretty girl in the coffee shop
Having more and better sex
The Result: You Become an “Integrated Man”
What is an Integrated Man?
An integrated man takes responsibilities for his needs and desires.
He is honest about who he is. The good, the bad, and the ugly.
He sets healthy boundaries.
He faces fears and challenges.
He leans into healthy masculinity.
And most important of all, he stops apologizing for who he is.
By doing so, he becomes a better friend, family member, neighbor, and lover to those around him.
That’s when real living begins.
Here’s a small sample of the feedback we’ve received from IN members that are on this “real living” journey:
“I would not be the man I am today without IN. I learned to speak the truth, to speak my wishes, to speak my feelings. I learned to set and keep boundaries in my everyday life. I learned not to be afraid of the unknown, but to let it guide me. And I have made some great male friends!” -Rover from the Netherlands
“I feel like I have a place to go where people will hear me and be excited for my wins and supportive in my struggles. I haven’t seen any judgement in the group.” -Gabriel from Missouri
“If you feel alone, misunderstood, enslaved by your obligation to always please others, this is the right place to share and be seen.” -Matteo from Italy
“I was surprised at the level of ‘belonging’ I feel with the brotherhood. The last time I felt this connected with a group of guys was playing high school soccer.” -Mike from South Carolina
“This has been an amazing experience and addition to my life as I continue to show up in life, do something different, and be more present for those around me, including myself.” -David from Texas
“Thanks to Dr G. and team for this amazing platform. It came at a point when I was at my lowest. And today, I am at a much better place that I haven’t ever been in my life.” -Manpreet from Montreal.
“The coaches are extremely knowledgeable and each one brings their own special gifts and capabilities to their clients.” -Brendan from Florida
“If your life has improved in any way from reading No More Mr. Nice Guy or listening to a podcast with Dr. Glover, IN is the perfect place to find men to help you on your recovery.” -Luis from Florida
“Do yourself a favor and stop overthinking it. The worst thing that can happen is you will be held accountable and you can either make a choice to take a chance on yourself and get the life you always sought after, or you can decide that it’s not for you. $69 a month is an absolute bargain for the return on your investment. It’s a no brainer.” -Hussain from Kuwait
So If You’re “IN” -
This Is How Integration Nation Works
Because of the demands for my time, when I do 1:1 coaching, I charge $1,000 per hour.
But I wanted to make Integration Nation as accessible as possible.
So we priced Gold Member Access at just $69 per month. (this is the most popular choice)
This is our premier tier including:
Full 24/7 access to our members site plus our mobile app
1-2 LIVE coaching calls hosted by me every month
50+ additional LIVE coaching sessions and drop-IN calls per month
Full recordings of all sessions for repeat watching/listening
Monthly interview series with special guests like Mark Manson, John Wineland, Preston Smiles, Oliver Burkeman, and Alison Armtrong
Our INteractive timeline - the community chat so you can ask questions and connect with fellow members
An always-on Zoom room so you can talk to other men any time (we call it the “Gloverhood Cafe”)
Online clubs formed by fellow Integration Members to go deep on topics like marriage, dating, fashion, and productivity
First access to in-person events like our upcoming conference in Playa Del Carmen, Mexico
Maybe Silver Tier Works for You?
If you don’t have time to make our live calls, or you don’t have $69 a month, check out our Silver Tier for just $23.
You get:
Full 24/7 access to our members site plus our mobile app
Our INteractive timeline - the community chat so you can ask questions and connect with fellow members
Access to our recording library
Access to live event ticket when available
Frequently Asked Questions…
Does Integration Nation Work With My Therapy?
Yes. Many IN members attend therapy. And we imagine just about every mental health professional would encourage men to join supportive, action-oriented communities like IN.
Does Dr. Glover Really Host Coaching Calls Himself?
Yes, Dr. Glover personally hosts 1-2 calls per month, where he teaches actionable lessons and answers your questions.
Is There Any Commitment to Stay On Once I Join?
There is no commitment. If IN doesn’t work for you, you can end your membership with just 3 clicks of your mouse on our platform. You do not have to call or email us.
What Kind of Men Join Integration Nation?
Our community is full of men doing better. That’s the common thread. If you are dedicated to working for the life you really want, you have a place here.
We have members from over 40 countries - everywhere from the US to Canada to Australia to Germany to Japan to India, plus plenty more. They have a huge range of occupations. You might find yourself talking to software engineers, marketing executives, personal trainers, graphics designers, or teachers. We’ve even had former professional athletes.
Can I Join Without Reading Dr. Glover’s Books?
Yes you can, but we recommend starting with “No More Mr. Nice Guy” first.
How do You Help Men Going Through Life Transitions, Like Divorces, Deaths in the Family, Health Challenges, and New Careers?
Life changes can be major catalysts for self-improvement. Because you get reminded of how fast time is going by.
Many of our coaches and members have personal experience with these issues, and stand by ready to work with you.
We even have specialized discussion groups for people going through divorce and other relationship challenges.
Is Integration Nation Part of the Red Pill or Manosphere Communities?
Dr. Glover has spoken at Red Pill conference and agrees with certain RP concepts. But we do not like the idea of “us vs. them” when it comes to relating with women and hierarchies between men (i.e., “Red Pill” vs “Blue Pill”).
If I Stop Being a Nice Guy, Will I Become a Jerk?
We sincerely hope not! We want you to build the relationship skills you need to build the life you really want.
If I Join Integration Nation, Should I Avoid Telling My Wife?
LOL! We can’t tell you how to manage your marriage, but we believe a good woman will support you in bettering yourself.
And fun fact - women love the “No More Mr. Nice Guy” book because they don’t want nice guys. They want healthy, integrated men.
If you think it’s tough being a Nice Guy, try living with one…
I Have a Question About the Community - How Can I Get in Touch?
Just head to our contact form here and send us a message. Our team will get back to you ASAP.
So Again… Are You IN?
Ready to take your next step on your Nice Guy Recover Journey?
Who Is Dr. Robert Glover?
Dr. Robert Glover, therapist, coach, speaker, and educator is a relationship expert with over 40 years of professional experience. The author of the groundbreaking, “No More Mr. Nice Guy”, the best-selling “Dating Essentials for Men”, “Dating Essentials for Men: Frequently Asked Questions,” and the recently released, The Big Stick with coauthor Tony Endelman, Dr. Glover has helped thousands of men world-wide transform their lives and get what they want in relationship, sex, and career.
